||The Four Poisons of the Heart
"And keep yourself (O Muhammad!) patiently with those who
call on their Lord (your companions who remember their Lord with glorification,
praising in prayers, etc., and other righteous deeds, etc.) morning and
afternoon, seeking His Face, and let not your eyes overlook them, desiring the
pomp and glitter the life of the world; and obey not him whose heart We have
made heedless of Our Remembrance, one who follows his own lusts and whose affair
(deeds) has been lost." The Holy Quran: 18:28.
You should know that all acts of disobedience are poision to the heart and cause
its sickness and ruin. They result in its will running off course, against that
of Allah, and so its sickness festers and increases. Ibn al-Mubarak said: I have
seen wrong actions killing hearts, And their degradation may lead to their
bcoming addicted to them. Turning away from wrong actions gives life to the
hearts, And opposing your self is best for it.
Whoever is concerned with the health and life of his heart, must rid it of the
effects of such poisons, and then protect it by avoiding new ones. If he takes
any by mistake, then he should hasten to wipe out their effect by turning in
repentance and seeking forgiveness from Allah, as well as by doing good deeds
that will wipe out his wrong actions.
By the four poisions we mean unnecessary talking, unrestrained glances, too much
food, and keeping bad company. Of all the poisons, these are the most widespread
and have the greatest effect on a heart's well-being.
It is reported in al-Musnad, on the authority of Anas, that the Prophet (s)
said: "The faith of a servant is not put right until his heart is put right, and
his heart is not put right until his tongue is put right."1 This shows that the
Prophet (s) has made the purification of faith conditional on the purification
of the heart, and the purification of the heart conditional on the purification
of the tongue.
At-Tirmidhi relates in a hadith on the authority of Ibn Umar: "Do not talk
excessively without remembering Allah, because such excessive talk without the
mention of Allah causes the heart to harden, and the person furthest from Allah
is a person with a hard heart." 2
Umar Ibn al-Khattab, may Allah be pleased with him, said: "A person who talks
too much is a person who often makes mistakes, and someone who often makes
mistakes, often has wrong actions. The Fire has a priority over such a freqent
In a hadith related on the authority of Mu'adh, the Prophet (s) said, "Shall I
not tell you how to control all that?" I said, "Yes do, O Messenger of Allah."
So he held his tongue between his fingers, and then he said: "Restrain this." I
said, "Oh Prophet of Allah, are we accountable for what we say?" He (s) said,
"May your mother be bereft by your loss! Is there anything more than the harvest
of the tongues that throws people on their faces (or he said 'on their noses'
into the Fire?" 4
What is meant here by 'the harvest of the tongues' is the punishment for saying
forbidden things. A man, through his actions and words, sows the seeds of either
good or evil. On the Day of Resurrection he harvests their fruits. Those who sow
the seeds of good words and deeds harvest honour and blessings; those who sow
the seeds of evil words and deeds reap only regret and remorse.
A hadith related by Abu Huraira says, "What mostly causes people to be sent to
the Fire are the two openings: the mouth and the private parts."5
Abu Huraira also related that the Messenger of Allah (s) said, "The servant
speaks words, the consequences of which he does not realise, and for which he is
sent down into the depths of the Fire further than the distance between the east
and the west."6
The same hadith was transmitted by at-Tirmidhi with slight variations: "The
servant says something that he thinks is harmless, and for which he will be
plunged into the depths of the Fire as far as seventy autumns."7
Uqba ibn Amir said: "I said: "O Messenger of Allah, what is our best way of
surviving?' He, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, replied: "Guard your
tongue, make your house suffice for sheltering your privacy, and weep for your
It has been related on the authority of Sahl ibn Sa'd that the Prophet (s) said,
"Whoever can guarantee what is between his jaws and what is between his le
guarantee him the Garden."9
It has also been related by Abu Huraira, may Allah be pleased with him, that the
Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Let whoever believes in
Allah and the Last Day either speak good or remain silent."10
Thus talking can either be good, in which case it is commendable, or bad, in
which case it is haram.
The Prophet (s) said: "Everything the children of Adam say goes against them,
except for their enjoining good and forbidding evil, and remembering Allah,
Glorius and Might is He." This was reported by at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Ma'jah on the
authority of Umm Habiba, may Allah be pleased with her.11
Umar ibn al-Khattab visited Abu Bakr, may Allah be pleased with them, and found
him pulling his tongue with his fingers. Umar said "Stop! may Allah forgive
you!" Abu Bakr replied; "This tongue has brought me to dangerous places."12
Abdullah ibn Mas'ud said: "By Allah, besides Whom no god exists, nothing
deserves a long prison sentence more than my tongue." He also used to say: "O
tongue, say good and you will profit;desist from saying evil things and you will
be safe; otherwise you will find only regret."
Abu Huraira reported that Ibn al-Abbas said: "A person will not feel greater
fury or anger for any part of his body on the Day of Judgement more than what he
will feel for hi tongue, unless he only used it for saying or enjoining good."
Al-Hassan said: "Whoever does not hold his tongue cannot understand his deen."
The least harmful of a tongue's faults is talking about whatever does not
concern it. The following hadith of the Prohet (s) is enough to indicate the
harm of this fault: "One of the merits of a person's Islam is his abandoning
what does not concer him."13
Abu Ubaida related that al-Hassan said: "One of the signs of Allah's abandoning
a servant is His making him preoccupied with what does not concern him."
Sahl said, "Whoever talks about what does not concern him is deprived of
As we have already mentioned above, this is the least harmful of the tongue's
faults. There are far worse things, like backbiting, gossipying, obscene and
misleading talk, two-faced and hypocritical talk, showing off, quarrelling,
bickering, singing, lying, mockery, derision and falsehood; and there are many
more faults which can affect a servant's tongue, ruining his heart and causing
him to lose both his happiness and pleasure in this life, and his success and
profit in the next life. Allah is the One to Whom we turn for assistance.
The unrestrained glance results in the one who looks becoming attracted to what
he sees, and in the imprinting of an image of what he sees in his heart. This
can result in several kinds of corruption in the servant. The following are a
number of them:
It has been related that the Prophet (s) once said words to the effect: "The
glance is a poisoned arrow of shaytan. Whoever lowers his gaze for Allah, He
will bestow upon him a refreshing sweetness which he will find in his heart on
the day that he meets Him."14
Shaytan enters with the glance, for he travels with it, faster than the wind
blowing through an empty place. He makes what is seen appear more beautiful than
it really is, and transforms it into an idol for the heart to worship. Then he
promises it false rewards, lights the fire of desires within it, and fuels it
with the wood of forbidden actions, which the servant would not have committed
had it not been for this distorted image.
This distracts the heart and makes it forget its more important concerns. It
stands between it and them; and so the heart loses its straight path and falls
into the pit of desire and ignorance. Allah, Mighty and Glorious is He, says:
"And do not obey anyone whose heart WE have made forgetful in remembering Us-
who follows his own desires, and whose affair has exceeded all bounds. (18:28)"
The unrestrained gaze causes all three afflictions.
It has been said that between the eye and the heart is an immediate connection;
if the eyes are corrupted, then the heart follows. It becomes like a rubbish
heap where all the dirt and filth and rottennes collect, and so there is no room
for love for Allah, relating all matters to Him, awareness of being in His
presence, and feeling joy at His proximity-only the opposite of these things can
inhabit such a heart.
Staring and gazing without restraint is disobedience to Allah:
"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and quard their modesty; that is
more purifying for them. Surely Allah is aware of what they do. (24:30)"
Only the one who obeys Allah's commands is content in this world, and only the
servant who obeys Allah will survive in the next world.
Furthermore, letting the gaze roam free cloaks the heart with darkness, just as
lowering the gaze for Allah clothes it in light. After the above ayah, Allah,
the Glorious and Mighty, says in the same surah of the the Qur'an:
"Allah is the light of the heavens and the earth: the likeness of His light is
as if there were a niche, and in the niche is a lamp, and in the lamp is a
glass, and the glass as it were a brilliant star, lit from a blessed tree, an
olive, neither of the east nor of the west, whose oil is well nigh luminous,
though fire scarce touched it. Light upon light. 'Allah guides whomever He wants
to His Light. Allah strikes metaphors for man; and Allah knows all things.
When the heart is a light, countless good comes to it from all directions. If it
is dark, then clouds of evil and afflictions come from all directions to cover
Letting the gaze run loose also makes the heart blind to distinguishing between
truth and falsehood, between the sunnah and innovation; while lowering it for
Allah, the Might and Exalted, gives it a penetrating, true and distinguishing
A righteous man once said: "Whoever enriches his outward behaviour by follwing
the sunnah, and makes his inward soul weathy thorugh contemplation, and averts
his gaze away from looking at what is forbidden, and avoids anything of a
doubtful nature, and feeds soley on what is halal-his inner sight will never
Rewards for actions come in kind. Whoever lowers his gaze from what Allah has
forbidden, Allah will give his inner sight abundant light.
Too Much Food
The consumption of small amounts of food guarantees tenderness of the heart,
strenght of the intellect, humility of the self, weakness of desires, and
gentleness of temperament. Immoderate eating brings about the opposite of these
Al-Miqdam ibn Ma'd Yakrib said: "I heard the Messenger of Allah (s) say: "The
son of Adam fills no vessel more displeasing to Allah than his stomach. A few
morsels should be enough for him to preserve his strength. If he must fill it,
then he should allow a third for his food, a third for his drink and leave a
third empty for easy breathing."15
Excessive eating induces many kinds of harm. It makes the body incline towards
disobedience to Allah and makes worship and obedience seem laborious-such evils
are bad enough in themselves. A full stomach and excessive eating have caused
many a wrong action and inhibited much worship. Whoever safeguards against the
evils of overfilling his stomach has prevented great evil. It is easier for
shaytan to control a person who has filled his stomach with food and drink,
which is why it has often been said: "Restrict the pathways of shaytan by
It has been reported that when a group of young men from the Tribe of Israel
were worshipping, and it was time for them to break their fast, a man stood up
and said: "Do not eat too much, otherwise you will drink too much, and then you
will end up sleeping too much, and then you will lose too much."
The Prophet (s) and his companions, may Allah be pleased with them, used to go
hungry quite frequently. Although this was often due to a shortage of food,
Allah decreed the best and most favourable conditions for His Messenger, may
Allah bless him and grant him peace. This is why Ibn Umar and his father before
him-in spite of the abundance of food available to them-modelled their eating
habits on those of the Prophet (s). It has been reported that Aisha, may Allah
be pleased with her, said: "From the time of their arrival in Madina up until
his death (s), the family of Muhammed (s) never ate their fill of bread made
from wheat three nights in a row."17
Ibrahim ibn Adham said: "Any one who controls his stomach is in control of his
deen, and anyone who controls his hunger is in control of good behaviour.
Disobedience towards Allah is nearest to a person who is satiated with a full
stomach, and furthest away from a person who is hungry."
Keeping Bad Company
Unnecessary companionship is a chronic disease that causes much harm. How often
have the wrong kind of companionship and intermixing deprived people of Allah's
generosity, planting discord in their hearts which even the passage of time-even
if it were long enough for mountains to be worn away-has been unable to dispel.
In keeping such company one can find the roots of loss, both in this life and in
the next life.
A servant should benefit from companionship. In order to do so he should divide
people into four categories, and be careful not to get them mixed up, for once
one of them is mixed with another, then evil can find its way through to him:
The first category are those people whose company is like food: it is
indispensable, night or day. Once a servant has taken his need from it, he
leaves it be until he requires it again, and so on. These are the people with
knowledge of Allah-of His commands, of the scheming of His enemies, and of the
diseases of the heart and their remedies- who wish well for Allah, His Prophet
(s) and His servants. Associating with this type of person is an achievement in
The second category are those people whose company is like a medicine. They are
only required when a disease sets in. When you are healthy, you have no need of
them. However, mixing with them is sometimes necessary for your livelihood,
businesses, consultation and the like. Once what you need from them has been
fulfilled, mixing with them should be avoided.
The third category are those people whose company is harmful. Mixing with this
type of person is like a disease, in all its variety and degrees and strengths
and weaknesses. Associating with one or some of them is like an incurable
chronic disease. You will never profit either in this life or in the next life
if you have them for company, and you will surely lose either one or both of
your deen and your livelihood because of them. If their companionship has taken
hold of you and is established, then it becomes a fatal, terrifying sickness.
Amongst such people are those who neither speak any good that might benefit you,
nor listen cloesly to you so that they might benefit from you. They do not know
their souls and consequently put their selves in their rightful place. If they
speak, their words fall on their listeners' hearts like the lashes of a cane,
while all the while they are full of admiration for and delight in their own
They cause distress to those in their company, while believing that they are the
sweet scent of the gathering. If they are silent, they are heavier than a
massive millstone-too heavy to carry or even drag across the floor.18
All in all, mixing with anyone who is bad for the soul will not last, even if it
is unavoidable. It can be one of the most distressing aspects of a servant's
life that he is plagued by such person, with whom it may be necessary to
associate. In such a relationship, a servant should cling to good behaviour,
only presenting him with his outward appearance, while disguising his inner
soul, until Allah offers him a way out of his affliction and the means of escape
from this situation.
The fourth category are those people whose company is doom itself. It is like
taking poision: its victim either finds an antidote or perishes. Many people
belong to this category. They are the people of religious innovation and
misguidance, those who abandon the sunnah of the Messenger of Allah (saws) and
advocate other beliefs. They call what is the sunnah a bid'a and vice-versa. A
man with any intellect should not sit in their assemblies nor mix with them. The
result of doing so will either be the death of his heart or, at the very best,
its falling seriously ill.
What Gives the Heart Life and Sustenance
You should know that acts of obedience are essential to the well being of the
servant's heart, just in the same way that food and drink are to that of the
body. All wrong actions are the same as poisonous foods, and they inevitably
harm the heart.
The servant feels the need to worship his Lord, Mighty and Glorious is He, for
he is naturally in constant need of His help and assistance.
In order to maintain the well being of his body, the servant carefully follows a
strict diet. He habitually and constantly eats good food at regular intervals,
and is quick to free his stomach of harmful elements if he happens to eat bad
food by mistake.
The well being of the servant's heart, however, is far more important than that
of his body, for while the well being of his body enables him to lead a life
that is free from illnesses in this world, that of the heart ensures him both a
fortunate life in this world and eternal bliss in the next.
In the same way, while the death of the body cuts the servant off from this
world, the death of the heart results in everlasting anguish. A righteous man
once said, "How odd, that some people mourn for the one whose body has died, but
never mourn for the one whose heart has died-and yet the death of the heart is
far more serious!"
Thus acts of obedience are indispensable to the well being of the heart. It is
worthwhile mentioning the following acts of obedience here, since they are very
necessary and essential for the servant's heart: Dhikr of Allah ta'Ala,
recitation of the Noble Qur'an, seeking Allah's forgiveness, making du'as,
invoking Allah's blessings and peace on the Prophet, may Allah bless him and
grant him peace, and praying at night.*
1. Da'if hadith, Al-Mundhari, 3/234; and al-Iraqi in al-Ihya, 8/1539.
2. Da'if hadith, at-Tirmdihi, Kitab az-Zuhud, 7/92, gharib; no one else has
transmitted it other than Ibrahim ibn Abdullah ibn Hatib, whom adh-Dhahabi
mentions, 1/43, stating that this is one of the gharib hadith attributed to him.
3. Da'if hadith, Ibn Hibban and al-Baihaqi, and al-Iraqi in his edition of al-Ihya,
4. Sahih hadith, at-Tirmidhi, al-Hakim, adh-Dhahabi.
5. Sahih hadith, at-Tirmidhi and Ahmad; also al-Hakum and adh-Dhahabi.
6. Al-Bukhari in Kitab ar-Riqaq, and Muslim in Kitab az-Zuhud.
7. At-Tirmdihi, Kitab az-Zuhud; he said the hadith is hasan gharib.
8. At-Tirmdihi in Kitab az-Zuhud with a slightly different wording; he said the
hadith is hasan. This wording is reported by Abu Na'im in al-Hilya.
9. Al-Buhhari, Kitab ar-Riqaq, 11/308 and Kitab al-Hudud, 12/113.
10. Al-Bukhari, Kitab ar-Riqaq, 11/308; Muslim, Kitab al-Iman, 2/18. The
complete hadith is: "Let whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day either speak
good or remain silent; and let whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day be
generous to his neighbour; and let whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day be
generous to his guest."
11. The hadith is hasan and is reported by at-Tirmdhi in Kitab az-Zuhud and by
Ibn Majah in Kitab al-Fitan. At-Tirmidhi classifies it as hasan gharib. We have
no report of it other than from Muhammad ibn Yazid ibn Khanis.
12. Hasan according to Abu Ya'la, Baihaqi and as-Suyuti. Musnad, 1/201; as-Sa'ati.
13. Sahih, at-Tirmdhi, Kitab az-Zuhud, 6/607; Ahmad, al-Musnad, 1/201; as-Sa'ati,
al-Fath ar-Rabbani, 19/257; hadith number 12 in an-Nawawi's Forty Hadiths.
14. Da'if, at-Tabarani, 8/63; al-Hakim, al-Mustadrak, 4/314; Ahmad, al-Musnad,
15. Sahih, Ahmad, al-Musnad, 4/132; as-Sa'ati, al-Fath ar-Rabbani, 17/88; at-Tirmidhi,
Kitab az-Zuhud, 7/51.
16. Da'if; it does not appear in most of the sources of the sunnah, but is
mentioned in al-Ghazzali's al-Ihya, 8/1488.
17. Al-Bukhari, Kitab al-At'ima, 9/549; and Muslim, Kitab az-Zuhud, 8/105.
18. Ash-Shafi', may Allah be pleased with him, is reported to have said,
"Whenever a tedious person sits next to me, the side on which he is sitting
feels lower down than the other side of me."
Source: Taken (with Thanks) from Shields of Islam