Author: Sister A Abdullah
Published on: January 21, 2001 :suite101.com
There is a lot of debate among Muslims as to whether or not it is required
for a Muslim woman to cover her face and hands in addition to the rest of
her body when appearing in public or in front of non-Mahrem men. The
purpose of this article is not to fall on either side of that debate, but
to urge all Muslims to show respect for sisters who have chosen to wear
either the khimar (full face covering) or the niqab (face covering which
leaves the eyes exposed.) Some Muslims give these sisters a hard time,
saying that they are doing above and beyond what has been commanded by
Allah SWT, and that the "extreme" appearance of these fully-veiled women
projects a bad image to the non-Muslims who already view the Muslim woman
as weak and oppressed. They argue that such individuals, upon seeing
fully-veiled Muslim women, will be "turned off" by "Islam, and we will
have forever lost potential Muslim converts, or even the understanding and
sympathy of the non-Muslim community.
Think about it carefully: would we ever think of criticizing a Muslim who
fasts extra days outside of "Ramadan? Do we belittle the Muslims whose
prayers exceed the prescribed daily five? Are we upset when Muslims give
more zakat than required by Islamic Law? Of course not. We admire such
people for their apparent dedication to Allah SWT, just as we should
admire Muslim women who cover their faces for the same reason. Whether
they veil because they take the so-called "most-conservative" viewpoint
that covering the face is a requirement of Islamic Law, or because they
simply believe that they will earn extra reward from our Lord and Creator
for doing something more. Praise be to Allah, veiled women are engaged in
halal, and that is the bottom line.
As for the question of non-Muslims being "turned off" by Islam upon seeing
fully-veiled Muslim women, Muslims should not waste time and energy
worrying about such matters. To the contrary, some non-Muslims are not
critical of the face-veil at all and are so intrigued by it that they
actually become interested in Islam as a direct result of seeing fully
covered Muslim women.
One non-Muslim woman wrote about her impressions of the face-veil in our
local newspaper after crossing paths with a veiled woman on a busy city
street. The writer was struck by the confidence with which the Muslim
woman walked, seeing all that was around her, but not being seen by
others, secure in the knowledge that no man could make a lewd comment to
her about her shapeless body and invisible face. She confessed a twinge of
jealousy as she contemplated her own short skirt and tight blouse,
realizing in a split second that, no matter how much she tried to convince
herself otherwise, society's men were probably not judging her solely for
her intellectual and professional capabilities. She now felt embarassed in
front of the Muslim woman who must've, she imagined, felt somewhat sorry
for a "liberated" western woman like herself who could not even make it
from one end of the street to the other without fear of harassment.
(Please note that these were the writer's own sentiments and my intention
is not to put her down but to show that there is more to equal rights than
rules and regulations: it also has to do with belief, mindset and the
reality of how men and women interact with one another as opposed to how
we think they should in a perfect world.)
Contrast this powerful piece of writing to an article authored by a Muslim
woman in another newspaper. In it, the woman practically begged
non-Muslims not to judge Islam by the face-veil, which, she claimed, is a
mere cultural tradition having nothing to do with Islam. This article
served to divide local Muslims into two camps, understandably upsetting
veiled women and their families. Even if one wanted to take the
"least-least conservative" point of view and say that the veil is nothing
more than a cultural tradition, it should not be forgotten that such a
tradition has sprung forth from a culture of Muslims who are seeking the
reward and pleasure of Allah, Most High. We should, in fact, respect the
sisters who, in spite of the intense scrutiny placed upon them by Muslims
and non-Muslims alike, continue to veil, refusing to abandon a halal
garment which provides them (and the community as a whole) with extra
doses of security, honor and pride.
Islam is a light that Allah SWT puts into one's heart, and He will
undoubtedly help those sincere individuals who are seeking the Straight
Path to get there one way or another. It really has nothing to do with
what people "think about Islam." One of the best things we can do as
Muslims is to behave well, dealing with people kindly and fairly,
remembering that it is ultimately up to the will of Allah, Most Glorious
if a particular individual is to become a Muslim or not. We should never
think that we have to change the good things about ourselves in order to
attract new converts to Islam. This strategy is not only demoralizing to
one's iman, but it also does not work.
In conclusion, I would like to note that I do not wear the face-veil
myself (only the basic hijab) but that I do have enormous respect for the
women who cover their faces. I was prompted to write this article after
hearing from many of my fully-veiled sisters in faith that some of the
harshest criticisms they receive are from within the American Muslim
community itself and not from non-Muslims as they had anticipated before
adopting the veil. I really think that all Muslims should realize how much
courage and confidence it takes to veil one's self in modern-day America
and that we should be their best supporters in the struggle for the Muslim
woman's right to veil.
Article taken (with
Thanks) from
Al-Islaah Publications
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