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CHAPTER
ON THE WEEPING OF SAYYIDINA RASULUILAH SALLAILAHU 'ALAYHI WASALLAM
A person weeps
(cries) because of some reason. At times one cries because of mercy and
kindness; at times because of fear; sometimes because of fondness and-love;
sometimes due to intense happiness; sometimes due to pain or-sorrow; at
times due to the oppression of someone. Among these there is the crying
of taubah (repentance) which is an outcome of some sin committed; one type
of crying is due to nifaaq (hypocrisy), which is done for show, where one
cries in salaah so that others may feel that that person is crying due to
piety, humbleness etc.; one type of crying is for a request, for instance
where one cries for a dead person without taking any remuneration; one type
is to cry for a remuneration where for example one is paid to cry at the
house of a dead person as is the custom in some areas; one type of crying
is the crying of acceptance where one sees another crying and after seeing
this he also begins to cry, etc. Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi
Wasallam mainly cried due to the fondness and love for a deceased person,
or for fear of, on behalf of the ummah, or because of the fear or longing
for Allah Ta'aala, as will be seen in the narrations. Only these types of
crying are praiseworthy. The mashaa-ikh have written, one type of crying
is called a lie, that is the crying of a person after committing a sin but
thereafter does not refrain from that sin. The commentators on hadith write
the crying, of Sayyidina Daawud 'Alayhis Salaam was due to sorrow. The crying
of Sayyidina Ebrahim 'Alayhis Salaam was due to a desire, and the crying
of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam was because of love.
According to this humble servant this will mean that he mostly cried at
night due to love, otherwise Sayyidina Rasulullha Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam
cried due to different reasons as has been mentioned. The author has
compiled six ahaadith in this chapter.
(305) Hadith
Number 1:
'Abdullah bin Shikh-kheer Radiyallahu 'Anhu says: ''I attended the noble
assembly of Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam. He was performing
salaah. Because of his crying, such sound emmitted from his chest, like
that of a boiling pot''.
Commentary:
This was due to the total humbleness of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu
'Alayhi Wasallam. Some mashaa-ikh have written that this state of Sayyidina
Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam occurred when both the jalaali
and jamaali attribute of Allah appeared together. None can control the
jalaali attributes. Certainly, when the jamaali attributes appeared, at
that time a sort of happiness and contentment became apparent. Through
the tufayl (mediation/means) of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi
Wasallam the mashaa-ikh of suluk also experience these two conditions.
(306) Hadith
Number 2:
'Abdullah bin Mas'ud Radiyallahu 'Anhu says: ''Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi
Wasallam once asked me to recite the Qur-aan to him. (He might have said
this because one might be able to concentrate more when one is listens,
or he may have said this for another reason, which may include many reasons.
For example, the hearing of the recital of the Qur-aan is regarded as
a sunnah, as a result of this deed of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu
'Alayhi Wasallam) I said: ''O Messenger of Allah, should I recite it to
you when it has been revealed to you?' (Sayyidina ibn Mas'ud Radiyallahu
'Anhu may have thought this recital was for tabligh as a reminder) Rasulullah
Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam said: 'I love to hear it from another person''
Thereupon I began reciting Surah Nisaa (which begins from the last quarter
of the 4th juz). When I reached this aayah: ''But how (will it be with
them) when We bring of every people a witness, and We bring thee (O Muhammed)
a witness against these?''-Surah Nisaa,41 I saw tears flowing from
both eyes of Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam".
Commentary:
This crying of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam was due
to the listening of the words of Allah, and this befits the dignity of
the Qur-aan. Imaam Nawawi writes that to cry whilst reciting the Qur-aan
is the quality of the 'aarifeen and a sign of the saaliheen. Allah Ta'aala
has praised these people in the Qur-aan at many places. Allah Ta'aala
says: "When the revelations of the Beneficent were recited unto
them, they fell down (into sajdah), adoring and weeping".-Surah Maryam,
58.
"Lo! those who were given knowledge before it, when it is read
unto them, fall down prostrate on their faces, adoring".-Surah Israa
(Bani Israa-eel), 107.
By this it.is clear that who can confirm more to these aayaat than Sayyidina
Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam. It is not imaginable that the
crying of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam was due to
the greatness and Jalal of the Qur-aan. In this case, it is possible that
Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam must have been crying
from before and Sayyidina 'Abdullah bin Mas'ud Radiyallahu 'Anhu must
have observed it only after Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam
had been crying for some time. It may also be possible that he began crying
specially after the reciting of the aayah. The translation of this aayah
is: "But how (will it be with them) when We bring of every people
a witness, and We bring thee (0 Muhammad) a witness against these?'-Suratun
Nisaa, 41.
Sayyidina Rasulullah Saliallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam will be called to give
evidence on these people. This is the scene of qiyaamah. On that day every
nabi will be called upon to give evidence as a witness. The events of
which are described in detail in the ahaadith of the day of mah-shar.
In this manner it is possible that this crying of Sayyidina Rasuluilah
Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam will be due to the difficult times on the
day of qiyaamah and mah-shar. Every person will be engrossed and worried
of one's self only. It is possible that in this aayah Sayyidina Rasulullah
Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam is being commanded to appear as a witness.
And he fears the intense burden of being called up as a witness. It is
stated in a hadith that at the time when this aayah was revealed, Sayyidina
Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam said: 'O Allah, how can I be a
witness of those who were not in my presence?' Some of the 'ulama have
written that at the mentioning of this aayah, the scene of qiyaamah came
before him, and the fikr of the ummah was always with Sayyidina Rasulullah
Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam. He may have cried because of the sins of
the ummah. For this, every event is such, that it can be the cause of
crying. All this and besides this, there could be other reasons too for
his crying.
(307) Hadith
Number 3:
'Abdullah bin 'Umar Radiyallahu 'Anhu reports: ''In the time of Rasulullah
Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam there once occurred a solar eclipse (According
to the majority of the 'ulama this incident took place in the tenth year
hijri). Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam went into the masjid, commenced
salaah, and stood in qiyaam for so long that it was felt that he did not
intend to perform the ruku'. (In another narration it is stated that he
recited the Surah Baqarah.) He then performed such a long ruku as if he
did not want to come up from the Ruku'. Then in the same manner after
standing up from the ruku' he stood up for such a long time as if he did
not want to perform sajdah, here too he kept his mubaarak head on the
ground for such a long time as if he was not going to lift his mubaarak
head . In this manner he did the same after lifting the head and sitting
in jalsa, and after the jalsa in the second sajdah.In short, in every
rukn of the salaah this was done, that every rukn was so long, as if this
rukn was going to be performed till the end, and there is nothing after
it. (In the same manner he performed the second rak'ah, and in the last
sajdah), due to the intense fear he began taking heavy breaths and crying,
and began pleading to the Almighty Allah that 'O Allah, it is only You
that have promised that when these people make istighfaar there will be
no punishment'. This saying of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi
Wasallam refers to the aayah that is at the end of the ninth juz: ''But
Allah would not punish them while thou was with them, nor will He punish
them while they seek forgiveness;;.-Surah Al-Anfaal,33.
When Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam completed the salaah, the
sun had cleared already. Rasulullah Sallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam delivered
a sermon after this. After uttering the hamd and thanaa, he talked o this
subject, that the sun and moon does not eclipse because of the death or
birth of anyone, but both are from among the signs of Allah Ta'aala. (That
gives His creation a warning so that they may fear Him). When the eclipses
occurs then immediately turn towards Allah (begin istighfaar and performing
salaah).''
Commentary:
The reason for delivering this sermon was that in the days of jaahiliyyah
it was a general understanding that the eclipse of the sun and moon were
due to the death or birth of a great personality. Coincidently it so happened
that when Sayyidina Ebrahim Radiyallahu 'Anhu, the son of Sayyidina Rasulullah
Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam passed away, an eclipse took place. Therefore
this nurtured the view held during the days of jaahiliyyah. People began
saying that the eclipse was the result of the death of Sayyidina Ebrahim
Radiyallahu 'Anhu. The a-immah differ in that during the solar eclipse
should one or more than one ruku' be performed in one rak'ah. The Hanafis
say that only one ruku' should be performed (in one rak'ah). This hadith
strengthens their view. However scholarly differences and the proofs of
the opposing schools are not relevant here.
(308) Hadith
Number 4:
Ibn 'Abbaas Radiyallahu 'Anhu reports that one of the daughters of Rasulullah
Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam was on her death bed. Rasulullah Sallallahu
'Alayhi Wasallam picked her up and put her before him. She passed away
in his presence. Ummi Ayman (who was a slave girl of Sayyidina Rasulullah
Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam) began wailing aloud. Rasulullah Sallallahu
'Alayhi Wasallam said: "Are you crying before the Messenger of Allah?"
(because tears were also flowing from the eyes of Sayyidina Rasulullah
Sallallahu'Alayhi Wasallam). She said: 'Do I not see you cry?' Rasulullah
Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam replied: "This crying is not prohibited.
It is a mercy of Allah". (He softens the hearts of His servants,
and creates love and mercy in them). Rasulullah Sallallahu'Alayhi Wasallam
then said: "A Muslim is at peace at all times. even when his soul
is being taken out, he is busy uttering the hamd (praises) of Allah".
Commentary:
The 'ulama differ in that with which daughter did this incident take place.
According to the muhadditheen and historians this did not take place with
any of his daughters but with that of a grandson or grandaughter. It is
also possible that this took place with one of the sons. Such incidents
took place with his male offspring. With whomsoever this incident may
have taken place, the object here is to describe the softheartedness of
Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi 'Wasallam, and that stone heartedness
is contrary to kindness. To have natural love for children is not against
the dignity and sanctity of Prophethood. To be soft hearted is praiseworthy.
(309) Hadith
Number 5:
'Aayeshah Radiyallahu 'Anha reports: "Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi
Wasallam kissed the forehead of 'Uthmaan bin Maz'oon after his death.
At that time tears were flowing from his eyes".
Commentary:
This great Sahaabi was a foster brother of Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu
'Alayhi Wasallam. He was the thirteenth person to accept Islaam in its
early stages. He first migrated to Abyssynia then to Madinah. He was very
pious and devoted. At the time when it was still lawful to drink intoxicants,
he had already abstained from imbibing it, He was the first among the
Muhaajireen to pass away. He passed away in Sha'baan in the second year
hijri and was buried in the Jannatul Baqi.
(310) Hadith
Number 6:
Anas Radiyallahu 'Anhu reports: "Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam
was sitting at the grave of his daughter (Sayyiditina Ummi Kulthum Radiyallahu
'Anha) and tears were flowing from his eyes. Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu
'Alayhi Wasallam said: 'That person should enter the grave who did not
have sexual relations that (previous) night'. Abu Talhah Radiyallahu 'Anhu
replied: 'I did not'. At the request of Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi
Wasallam he entered her grave".
Commentary:
It is said that this was an obscure hint to Sayyidina 'Uthmaan Radiyallahu
'Anhu and that is, although his wife, the daughter of Sayyidina Rasulullah
Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam being very ill, that she passed away that
same day, he was with one of his slave girls that night. Some 'ulama did
not translate the word 'Lam Yuqaarif' as 'the one who did not commit sexual
relations' but as 'the one who did not commit a sin'. Some 'ulama have
translated it as 'did not speak' as Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi
Wasallam did not like to speak after 'eshaa. The most famous explanation
is the one used above. There is no difficulty in explaining 'Ta'reed'
(an obscure hint) too, a person does hint to one with whom one has a strong
relationship. If Sayyidina 'Uthmaan Radiyallahu 'Anhu did this because
of a strong urge, then there is no harm, also who knows when one will
die. It is possible that Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam
wanted to mildly bring it to his notice, but not scold him. It may not
be surprising that the reason for this is that the marriage of Sayyiditina
Ummi Kulthum Radiyallahu 'Anha was important, as this took place at the
commandment of Allah Ta'aala. When the first wife of Sayyidina 'Uthmaan
Radiyallahu 'Anhu, the elder sister of Siyyiditina Ummi Kulthum Radiyallahu
'Anha passed away, Sayyidina Rasulullah Sallallahu 'Alayhi Wasallam said:
'if I had a hundred daughters, and if every one died one after another,
I would have married each one of them one after the other to'Uthmaan.
'Jibra-eel 'Alayhis Salaam says that Allah Ta'aala has commanded that
I give the hand of Sayyidtina Ummi Kulthum Radiyallahu 'Anha in the marriage
of Sayyidina 'Uthmaan Radiyallahu 'Anhu.' In this manner it will surely
warrant that at the time of the illness of such a wife like Sayyiditina
Ummi Kulthum Radiyallahu 'Anha, a mild and obscure hint be given. And
Allah knows best.
Article
taken (with Thanks) from Darul-uloom Bury
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